life after shock: first steps

Ideally, a disaster will strike when one is at home, right? Everyone will be gathered together, playing games by candlelight and listening to music on the radio. That’s what happened during our first earthquake in September 2010, and as a result it was a much less traumatic experience. But the truth is it’s very likely that when a disaster strikes, one or more family members will not be home. Regardless of location, what you do in those first minutes is vital. Here are some tips based on our own family disaster plan…

Step One: Contact Your Family. You’ll likely only have a few minutes until cell phone towers are either swamped with calls or out of service. Have a plan for who will call whom so you don’t get voicemail (but leave a message if you can). Tip: As a back-up, agree on someone to call out of town/state with whom you can call to communicate with or leave a message for other family members, in case cell phones are completely unusable.

Step Two: Move to Your Designated Meeting Location. We now have three meeting locations, which we have informed our regular baby-sitters of, just in case: (1) Home; (2) the local park (in case we can’t stay/get home); and (3) the carpark of a well-known building on the other side of the city (in case of an evacuation or tsunami warning).

Step Three: Know where your supplies are so you can access them quickly and easily. You will need your radio to listen for updates/evacuations/warnings. Ideally, you want to be able to leave the house in about 5-10 minutes with everything that you need.

I used to believe (superstitiously, foolishly) that if I prepared for a disaster then we would have one. It’s similar to the egocentric fears I experience every time I get on a plane or think about preparing a will. So I didn’t have a plan. But disaster still struck. Not to people on tv, not to people I knew from childhood or from college…to me. Twice. Now I live by a different disaster theory, “Don’t be scared; be prepared.” I encourage you to do the same.

a break from the shakes

Lane on the Devonport Ferry to downtown Auckland (via iPhone)

What a nice weekend we had! We traveled to our old stomping grounds, Auckland, New Zealand, to get a break from earthquake-ravaged Christchurch. It turned out to be a great weekend to be away - there was a large (5.3) aftershock in Christchurch on Saturday, temporarily closing some of the city’s shops and infrastructure again. Boo.

We, however, enjoyed a few days of sunshine, warmer temps, family time, and guilt-free toilet flushing. It was just what we needed!

good-bye summer

A couple of weeks ago, Nate and I took the kids to a local school playground after dinner. It was a very warm day, even into the evening, and we knew it would probably be one of the last. Already trees are turning orange and yellow, and the mornings are quite chill. Soon we will have regular frosts and the days of walking around the house without slippers will seem like distant memories.

Good-bye, picnics in the park and walks to the playground.

Good-bye, open windows and warm breezes. Good-bye, bubbles in the backyard.

Good-bye, summer…

Made some YUMMY peanut butter cookies the other night with Lane. They turned out flat, but soft and chewy - they actually reminded me of Subway cookies. You can get the recipe here. I added white chocolate chips to some - an attempt to channel the White Chocolate Reese’s Cup (which we never buy here because they are so expensive - $2.50 for a two-pack!). It was a good experiment, but I think the plain peanut butter ones were better. What’s your favourite cookie?

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life after shock

Almost a month ago (wow, has it been a month already?!) we experienced our second major earthquake in six months. Our city, Christchurch, New Zealand, was pummeled by a 6.3 that was shallow and close, meaning the destruction was acute - the worst in this country’s recent memory.

As we continue to process this disaster, I thought I would share the journey with you. As we rebuild our lives, and as we work alongside our friends and neighbours to rebuild our city, I will share with you our struggles (e.g., how to build a make-shift toilet in your garage) and our victories (e.g., actually building a toilet in our garage!).

One thing I’ve always known: after earthquakes come aftershocks. What I know now: life after the shock of a major disaster becomes a new kind of life - a braver, more prepared, more determined kind of life. And it seems more precious now than ever.

日本のために祈りなさい

My heart is going out to everyone affected by Friday’s earthquake and tsunami in Japan. I’ve grown up watching disaster footage on television, and it’s always heartbreaking. But after living through an earthquake (or 2) myself, the footage now triggers a racing pulse and a bit of queasiness as well. I’ve had a taste of what they are going through, and my prayers today are on their behalf.